Cassie Meade

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We are an engaged LGBTQ+ couple currently DIYing our first home on the Chesapeake Bay! We believe in authentic storytelling and love sharing our daily life as a couple and topics like sustainability tips and home and garden projects.

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The most common things we argue about 🤷🏻‍♀️ Conflict is inevitable, but with the right tools it can help lead to deeper love. That’s exactly what it’s done for us. Cass and I are opposites in so many ways and our differences make us so incredibly complimentary to one another, but also can be a source of tension or misunderstanding if we aren’t mindful about it. One thing about our marriage is that we are both completely dedicated to learning, growing, and changing together because we trust that we both can make eachothers lives more rich. I trust Cassie as my wife, sometimes teacher, and confidant. Because conflict is never fully eliminated, we do our weekly family meetings to check in and make sure we are on track. It takes about 15 minutes for us at this point and eliminates almost all of these common conflict sources for us throughout the week. You can find our template in our bio ✨ Marriage is hard work, but there’s no work we’ve found more fulfilling 🫶🏼 #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #wlwcouple #marriedlesbians #lesbiancouplegoals #couplegoals #marriedlife #healthyrelationships #twowives #wifeandwife #queercouple #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexfamily #samesexparents #twomoms #twomomfamily #samesexlove #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls

We all have body hair 👇🏻 My relationship with body hair has changed so much over the years. I use to care a lot about what others thought, but what matters to me most these days is if I feel comfortable in my own skin. Now I just make sure I have the tools on hand to do my body hair my way when I want to. #ad I made the switch from disposable plastic razors to the @meridiangrooming trimmer and will never look back. This little tool is a big part of my everything shower days. Don’t be fooled, this sleek trimmer packs a punch. My favorite feature besides it being rechargeable? It’s fully waterproof 🚿 Grab yours on #Amazon during #PrimeDay #MeridianPartner

Not a single crumb left behind ✨ Special thanks to my project manager Mr. Midge 🐈‍⬛ who had a lot of opinions he wasn’t afraid to share throughout this mural painting process but boy does he know how to pick a Taylor swift song for every occasion. Phase one of the Creative Corner is done! Brightening up this space with a colorful backdrop will hopefully bring me lots of inspiration as I tackle all my creative whims. Next up, we’re looking for the ultimate crafting table so if you’ve got any suggestions I’m all ears. Project details: Paint: @sherwinwilliams @hgtvhomebysherwinwilliams | Dragon Fruit | Limó Fresco | Reclining Green | Julep | Natural Ground | Greens | Greek Villa @loweshomeimprovement @frogtape #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #leabiancouple #wifeandwife #mrsandmrs #marriedlesbians #wlw #lesbianfamily #lesbiancouplegoals #howwehome #twowives #samesexcouple #samesexparents #samesexlove #diyhomeprojects #girlswhodiy #handpaintedwallpaper #diyideas #diyprojects #loveislove #loveisloveislove #twomoms #lgbtfamily #twomomfamily #wlwcouple #lovewins #lesbianpride

SHE’S BEAUTIFUL 🥹😭 Y’all this exceeded my every expectation. Did it take many many hours? Yea. Do my forearms hurt from painting 100 half circles. Yea. Am I head over heels in love with it? YES!!!! Doing something for the first time can be really intimidating. For me the thing that often gets in the way is my fear of the things I create never being good enough. That perfectionism can rear its head but you just gotta trust the process and take the leap anyways. If you’re thinking of tackling a project like this yourself here’s some tips: ✨ plan out your design first (either in a sketch or on a computer) ✨ a laser level will be your best friend ✨hand tracing is good, projectors are better ✨if you have ADHD skip the expensive brushes. Get the cheap ones because you’ll probably forget to wash them like I do. Would you do something like this in your home? ✨ ——— Project details: Paint @sherwinwilliams | Dragon Fruit | Neutral Ground | Limón Fresco | Reclining Green | Julep | Greens Base color @hgtvhome @sherwinwilliams Greek Villa Supplies: @loweshomeimprovement @frogtape #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbiancouple #wifeandwife #mrsandmrs #marriedlesbians #lesbianfamily #lesbiancouplegoals #howwehome #twowives #samesexcouple #samesexparents #samesexlove #diyhomeprojects #girlswhodiy #diyprojects #loveislove #loveisloveislove #twomoms #lgbtfamily #twomomfamily #wlw #lovewins #lesbianpride #handpaintedwallpaper #diyideas #muralpainting

Screams: WORKING 9 TO 5!!! ✨🎶 Summer office fit check! Keeping things light and airy with lots of linen options during the warmer months. Loving this pastel stripped linen top I found at @macys paired with these navy chinos. As a sweaty person I’m so hesitant when it comes to linen clothes. Been finding some good options recently and as always I’m sharing my finds with y’all. Details (everything is from the men’s section) Shirt: Sun + Stone | size medium | @macys Pants: Sun + Stone | size 32 | @macys Shoes: Max + Jake | kids 7 🙈 | @dsw Where’s your favorite place to shop for summer? #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #marriedlesbians #nonbinary #enby #tomboystyle #androgynousstyle #lesbianstyle #nonbinarylesbian #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexlove #samesexparents #twomoms #twomomfamily #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouplegoals #twowives #lesbianpride

Our family meeting template is now DIGITAL ✨ We’ve been sharing sneak peaks into our family meetings and access to our templates for the past year, and our number one request was to make the template digital. Originally Cass designed it to be printed out and physically written on because it worked well for her ADHD and kept us unplugged and engaged with each other throughout the meeting. Today we took the digital version for its maiden voyage and really liked it! Some of the highlights include: 👉🏼 more sustainable option 👉🏼 both partners can work in the document simultaneously so not only one person is writing things down 👉🏼 like our printable template bundle the virtual files contain templates for weekly, monthly, and quarterly meetings as well as task division and other worksheets. 👉🏼 the digital version allows us to have meetings when traveling or in spontaneous settings more easily ✨Comment DIGITAL below and we will let you know where you can find our new digital family meeting templates! ✨ #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #marriagegoals #couplegoals #twowives #wifeandwife #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #gayfamily #twomoms #twomomfamily #samesexfamily #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #queercouple #familymeeting #relationshipgoals #lovemakesafamily

The honeymoon phase isn’t all it’s cracked up to be 👇🏻 Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing like the dopamine rush of falling in love. BUT for me the real magic has happened in our established married phase. Cassie and I both knew when we started dating that we were looking for the real deal. Someone to love and be loved by unconditionally and also someone to help us grow and deliver the hard truths we needed in a kind and nurturing way. We have many mindful marriage checkins and are very intentional with growing as individuals and together as a couple. And when we feel stuck we aren’t afraid to touch base with a couples therapist to help us navigate forward. This isn’t always easy or fun in the moment, but wow does it build a meaningful relationship. The marriage we have built together and continue to build everyday is single handedly the thing I am most proud of, and I’m so happy I found someone as dedicated to nurturing and building it as I am 🫶🏻 Anyone else think the old married is even better than new relationship energy? 👇🏻 #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #wlw #lovewins #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #wlwcouple #marriedlesbians #couplegoals #marriedlife #twowives #wifeandwife #healthymarriage #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #twomoms #twomomfamily #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #queercouple #lesbianlife #samesexlove #samesexmarriage

No shame here ✨👇🏻 It’s truly crazy to me that I used to cry getting dressed every morning before work because I was trying to force myself to wear the same things all the other girls were wearing. The idea of wearing clothes from the men’s section gave me so much anxiety that that felt like the better of the two options 🤷🏻 What I didn’t realize was happening was that I built up in my mind all these preconceived notions of what femininity meant. My whole life femininity had been shown and taught to me as looking like girls who were thin with long hair and who wore makeup and dresses and absolutely nothing else. Anytime I tried to deviate from that view I would hear the comments from people close to me in my life about how I could look so pretty if I just dressed up a little more. I’ve spent more time than I would like to admit unlearning all of that and relearning how to give myself permission to embrace myself and my style. News flash, clothes don’t make you beautiful. Beauty comes from within and when you feel good about yourself your beauty will radiate out of you. I wasn’t prepared for the whole 180 shift that happened when I started dressing in clothes that made me feel like me. And you know what? My life is so much better for it. You can see the literal confidence shift in how I carry myself and nothing is more worth it to me than that. Everyone deserves to be happy and at peace in their bodies and how they present themselves no ifs, ands, or buts, period. For anyone else on this journey of self acceptance just know you’re not alone and I see you 🫶🏻✨ you do you, boo. I’ll be right here cheering you on just like all of y’all have cheered me on. ✨Fit Check ✨ Knit top: @hollister (s) Linen pants: @hollister (L) Shoes: @nike (7.5 m) Watch: @macys Bag: @topodesigns #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #marriedlesbians #nonbinary #enby #tomboystyle #androgynousstyle #lesbianstyle #nonbinarylesbian #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexlove #samesexparents #twomoms #twomomfamily #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouplegoals #twowives #lesbianpride

The results were alarming 👀👀👀 Please please test any heirloom or thrifted pieces before using them, especially for hot food or drinks. Lead is a heavy metal that can wreak havoc on the body if ingested and can be found in many vintage pieces like frosted glass, hand painted dishes, toys, and more! A simple test kit can help determine if the pieces you have are even safe to be touching let alone using. In this haul we found that all of the mid century frosted glasses pieces tested positive for lead as well as the yellow teacup and the orange and blue colored vintage mugs. As a rule of thumb we don’t use vintage dishes to eat or drink from. If a piece tests positive for lead we keep it in a glass cabinet for display purposes only and make sure it isn’t being used or handled. Better safe than sorry, and always good to keep in mind that the EPA started regulated lead in the 1970s so pieces after this time period tend to be safer. Have you tested your thrifted or heirloom pieces? 👇🏻 #pride #pridemonth #pride2024 #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #marriedlife #couplegoals #thrifting #thrifted #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #lesbianfamily #wlwcouple #lgbtpride #twowives #wifeandwife #twomoms #twomomfamily #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #midcenturymodern #thriftedfinds

Gay marriage has only been legal for NINE YEARS 🏳️‍🌈👀 As a gay person it’s scary to think just how fresh this basic human right is. It hasn’t even been a decade and even with this victory for gay marriage, there is still so far to go with LGBTQ+ inclusive legislation. We included quotes from the official Supreme Court hearing on this case in our wedding ceremony because we wanted to honor just how powerful and new it is for a couple like us to be able to get married. Many of our attendees were shocked that this fundamental right was so new and just how easy it can be to stand back on the sidelines unaware of discrimination when you aren’t part of the minority group being directly affected. The truth is we all belong to each other and we all have to duty to keep pushing for the greater good of all 🫶🏼 “It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea of marriage. Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment for themselves. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded from one of civilizations oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.” 📸 @masonphotography #pride #pridemonth #pride2024 #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #wlwcouple #wlwpride #lesbianpride #gaymarriage #samesexmarriage #twowives #wifeandwife #equallywed #theknot #theknotweddings #lesbianwedding #gaywedding #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #twomoms #twomomfamily #couplegoals #marriedlife #lesbianfamily

Magic in the suburbs✨🏳️‍🌈 This past weekend we had a ton of fun exploring our new home here in Illinois. Here are our favorites from the weekend: ✨estate sale treasure hunting — Alexa found us a few estate sales to check out and we found some sapphic treasures to add to our growing collection (more to come on that) ✨Farmers market — we checked out a new to us farmers market. I always like to grab a treat to snack on while we walk around and of course you know I’m always carrying the bag. ✨The great @benandjerrys flavor debate— where we find ourselves standing in front of the freezer section at target debating which flavor we should get before inevitably ending up with the flavors we always pick. ✨Sunday reset— it sounds silly but I love the divide and conquer attitude Alexa and I share for Sundays. she heads to the store to do the grocery shopping while I clean up around the house. I challenge myself to see how much I can get done before A gets home. What did everyone else’s weekend look like? ✨ #pride #pridemonth #pride2024 #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #twowives #wifeandwife #lesbiancouplegoals #comingout #comingoutstory #couplegoals #marriedlife #lesbianfamily #gayfamily #lesbianpride #twomoms #twomomfamily #samesexcouple #samesexparents #lgbtpride #lgbtfamily #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia

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