Cassie Meade

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We are an engaged LGBTQ+ couple currently DIYing our first home on the Chesapeake Bay! We believe in authentic storytelling and love sharing our daily life as a couple and topics like sustainability tips and home and garden projects.

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Introvert wife 🤝extrovert wife Last weekend I surprised Cass with a perfect introvert date. As always, Cass is the chief passenger princess in our family and that means they get the aux cord to bless me with their current musical hyperfixation (currently Beyoncé). No date with my wife is complete without getting her a lavender oat milk latte before heading out. Cass loves thrifting and flipping furniture so we headed up to Baltimore to check out @secondchanceinc and had a great day walking the huge space and dreaming up lots of ideas for future flips! If you love a DIYer this is the perfect date idea to do together ✨ Any other introverts out there?🙋🏻‍♀️✨ #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiancouple #lesbiansofig #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #queercouple #marriedlesbians #lesbiancouplegoals #samesexcouple #twowives #mrsandmrs #lesbianfamily #gayfamily #lgbtfamily #lovemakesafamily #queercouple #itsokaytobegay #queerlove #couplegoals #outandproud

Easy swaps for maximum impact 🏡💪🏼 My wife has asthma and dust mite allergies and last year was really struggling to breathe. I started looking into cleaner home products we could be swapping in to relieve her symptoms and increase the overall health of our home. It’s safe to say it really took off. As a scientist by trade I couldn’t believe how many toxins were in nearly every product in our home and I set a goal to research a swap every month and make the most informed switch. A year later we notice HUGE differences and feel so great about how much cleaner our daily environment is. If you want to get started but feel overwhelmed, don’t worry! I share all my research and swaps on our LTK so you can see what products we use and why. I would focus on a few of these high impact changes upfront and then tackling one smaller swap every month. It doesn’t have to be perfect but steps ina. Cleaner direction are amazing! We still have so many to make so stay tuned for what we discover next 🫶🏼 Comment “CLEAN HOME” for links to all the non-toxic swaps featured 🏡✨ #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lovewins #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #marriedlesbians #couplegoals #marriedlife #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #gayfamily #samesexfamily#twomoms #twomomfamily #twowives #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #nontoxichome #nontoxicliving #cleanliving #sustainableliving #healthyhome

Making my wife drool 🤤✨ Prioritizing comfort today as we head out for a date day full of thrift shops and second hand salvage shopping. I’m not usually one to wear the color brown but these @dickies have me changing my tune a little. Hoping to score some fun pieces today ✨ Building out a base wardrobe of comfortable basics has been an absolute game changer for me. I love being able to mix and match my clothes in what feels like an infinite amount of combinations. No matter what, I know I always will be able to find something I feel amazing in and that feeling can’t be beat. Find everything linked on our LTK #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbiancouple #wifeandwife #mrsandmrs #marriedlesbians #lesbianfamily #lesbiancouplegoals #howwehome #twowives #samesexcouple #samesexparents #tomboystyle #nonbinary #nonbinarylesbian #androgynousstyle #lesbianstyle #loveislove #loveisloveislove #twomoms #lgbtfamily #twomomfamily #wlw #lovewins #lesbianpride

[AD] Making our space functional with @ikeausa 🏡🫶🏼 When we became homeowners 3 years ago, the first room we tackled was the laundry room. We removed outdated wallpaper, updated the appliances, and replaced the flooring. Aesthetically it looked great, but functionally it left us with only open storage. We found that it got cluttered easily and quickly became a source of stress for us. So we decided to refresh the space to better meet our needs! We headed to our local @ikeausa and found affordable closed storage options that enabled us to store all of our supplies out of sight and gave us the peace of mind we were looking for. We also found unique decor pieces to give the space some personality ✨ If there’s anything we’ve learned as homeowners it’s that spaces can evolve as our needs evolve, and we’re grateful @ikeausa always has us covered whatever those needs may be! #myIKEAUSA

I used to think I didn’t have style 🤷🏻‍♀️👇🏼 It wasn’t until recently that I really started feeling like I was dressing for me. Maybe it’s because as a closeted gay person I policed my self expression to make sure I was always fitting in enough, but to be honest I’ve never really followed rules when it comes to clothing. Now as an out and proud lesbian with the confidence to make my own rules when it comes to fashion, here is how I approach clothing 👇🏼 - Any piece from any section of the store is open for consideration. There’s no rules or boxes I need to fit into. - I ignore whats trending or in style unless i just happen to like it. If I like it I’ll wear it despite what retailers have determined. - I don’t try to fit into any traditional view of what dressing like a woman means. I rarely wear heels, makeup, or use a purse because they arent comfortable to me. I’m all about dressing in a way that makes me feel confident, sexy, and comfortable. - I don’t dress for anybody’s gaze but my own (and of course my wife’s on special occasion 🙃). This doesn’t mean wearing things from the women’s section is for the male gaze, it just means that if I wear those traditionally female items it’s because I want to, not because the male driven fashion industry invited me to feel like I had to. #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #wlw #lovewins #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #twowives #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #twowives #twomoms #twomomfamily #lgbtfamily #lesbianfamily #lgbtfashion #lesbianfashion #lesbiancouple #samesexlove #samesexcouple #gayfashion #tomboyfemme #whatiwore

My forever Valentine ❤️🏳️‍🌈🫶🏼 This morning when the alarm went off I rolled over to Cassie and said, “I can’t even imagine what my life would be like not being in love with you.” And it’s true! Being in love, particularly this love has truly been such a positive and healing force in my life. It’s kind of unbelievable to think that we only met 6 years ago. And it’s not that my life before was without love or purpose or meaning, but loving Cassie unlocked a whole new level of myself. It just goes to show you, you never know who you might meet, and how your life may be forever changed 🫶🏼 📸 @masonphotography @sophielasherphotography #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #wlw #lovewins #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #couplegoals #marriedlife #marriagegoals #twobrides #twowives #lesbianwedding #gaywedding #samesexwedding #equallywed #twomoms #twomomfamily #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexlove #queercouple

Come with me to plan the perfect date night in! Cass and I take turns planning Valentine’s dates for each other, and this year it is my turn. I headed to @jcpenney for all the perfect home date night essentials and put together a cute basket that Cass loved! I even surprised her with a set of silver necklaces that I know she has been eyeing up for months! Head to JCPenney in-store or online for all the perfect date night essentials and use the code DATE25 to get 25% off your purchase, exclusions apply! #JCPpartner

Can we please talk about how hard it is to have hobbies as adults?!? 👇🏻 I remember when I first graduated college and started my full time job I felt like I’d never have time for myself again. My whole day was consumed with commuting, working, making dinner, and repeating it all the next day. With time I learned how to make time for myself and pushed myself to try new hobbies. I didn’t just want to continue what I’d done in high school and college, I really wanted to challenge myself and see where it led me. I especially encouraged myself to try things I had no experience in or was actually bad at. As a perfectionist in my day job this was a really liberating practice. Turns out I’m a creative cooking and gardening fanatic. In fact it’s what I spend almost everyday thinking about and looking forward to. It’s crazy to think even several years ago it wasn’t on my radar whatsoever. You never know where creative will lead 🫶🏻 What’s a hobby you are exploring? 👇🏻 #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #couplegoals #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #marriedlesbians #twowives #wifeandwife #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #gayfamily #samesexfamily #samesexparents #twomoms #twomomfamily #marriedlife #marriagegoals #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls

Moved to the ‘burbs and never looked back 🏡✨ Owning a home together has truly been one of the best adventures we’ve ever gone on together. We knew NOTHING about home ownership when we bought our house and honestly are pretty proud of how much we have learned along the way! We especially love some of the statement rooms we’ve been able to design! Details from the video: Green velvet couch: @article Wallpaper: @chasingpaper Our go to paint brand: @sherwinwilliams #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #couplegoals #marriedlife #twowives #wifeandwife #lesbianfamily #samesexfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexcouple #samesexparents #twomoms #twomomfamily #queercouple #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #newhome #firsttimehomebuyer

Practical tips for working with my wife’s ADHD 🫶🏼 For us, being able to communicate in productive ways around how our brains work makes all the difference. As my wife had educated me on terms around ADHD and we’ve developed our own, this has really helped me understand how she works best and how I can best work with her as a partner. This is just a small sample of terms and phrases we use, but we hope it’s helpful if you and your partner are similar ✨ #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lovewins #wlw #loveislove #loveisloveislove #lesbiansofig #couplegoals #lesbiancouple #lesbiancouples #lesbiancouplegoals #twowives #marriedlife #twomoms #twomomfamily #lesbianfamily #lgbtfamily #samesexcouple #marriagegoals #adhd #adhdwomen #girlswhokissgirls #girlswholikegirls #neurodivergent #samesexparents #samesexfamily

What I’d do differently with my wardrobe👇🏻✨ If you’re new here, Hi 👋🏻 I’m Cass. I’ve been working on changing up my style for the better part of two years and I’m sharing every thing I’ve learned. If you’ve been around a while, welcome back 🫶🏻 Learning how to navigate style has been ride especially when you’re learning how to shop in an entirely different section of stores. It can be daunting and overwhelming, but I’m here to help others who dress like me or want to dress like me hopefully feel a little more seen in this process. One of the biggest hurdles I faced when I decided to start dressing for me was just not even knowing where to start because I wasn’t seeing examples of people who looked like me or dressed the way I wanted to. So if you’re in the position of thinking about making a big change to your style, Here are three things I would do differently if I was starting this process over from scratch 👇🏻 1. Ditch the crazy patterns 😱 - not forever, just at first. Focus on finding basics that feel good in your body. And slowly add in statement pieces. 2. Lean in to capsule wardrobes - now that you have all those basics, start mixing and matching. Figure out how to create the most number of outfits with the fewest items of clothing. I like to have a mini capsule for each season 3. Invest in good shoes - whatever style you like, but make the investments. Good shoes go along way and boy do I favor my Nikes. #globalgaygirlgang #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbiancouple #wifeandwife #mrsandmrs #marriedlesbians #lesbianfamily #lesbiancouplegoals #howwehome #twowives #samesexcouple #samesexparents #tomboystyle #nonbinary #nonbinarylesbian #androgynousstyle #lesbianstyle #loveislove #loveisloveislove #twomoms #lgbtfamily #twomomfamily #wlw #lovewins #lesbianpride

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