Heidi Stevenson

Dating apps are ridiculous. Combing through the piles of crap can get exhausting. I have never cleaned out the stalls of a horse barn but it seems like it could be similar. On a random note, In my life, I was always really good at matching and finding lookalikes of high end things and less expensive options. As a kid, I could play Memory or any similar games and win almost every time....

To Catch Up on the Dating Series 👇👇👇 1. https://trendywithapassport.com/a-date-in-columbus-a-series-episode-1/ 2. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-2/ 3. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-3/ 4. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-4/ 5. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-5-anaphylactic-heidi/ 6.https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-wait-are-you-married/ 7. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-7-catching-a-cheater/ 8. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-8-ugly-duckling-to-swan/ 9. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-9-are-you-kidding-me/ 10. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-10-date-a-with-a-widow-part-1 11. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-date-with-a-widow-part-2/

So, the beginning was slow - I wanted to provide context about the things I thought about dating a widow or potentially deciding to date a widow. To catch up start here Eek. So red flags 🚩 they aren’t fun facts about someone- they should be caution signs because you can really get hurt. So after the park bench and talking, he kissed me on the cheek and parted ways....

I have avoided dating a widow because it comes with a lot of feelings and emotions. To anyone who has gone through it - my heart goes out to you. Watching my mom navigate the loss of my dad was exhausting and I wasn’t a significant other; yet the pain and trauma was a lot to watch. I avoided it Until I didn’t....

Channeling Heidi in Paris .. . Paris is always a good idea and so is any vacation really.. been asked what my plans are for the rest of the year and I am really focused on Antarctica 🇦🇶 at the moment. . Typically I take a few trips at the start of each new year by ringing it in somewhere fun - this year… just preparing for the major epic adventure. . Current thoughts about travel: - Cappadoccia - Switzerland - Back to Italy & Greece - Maldives / Seychelles / Zanzibar / Kenya - Newport, Rhode Island - Morocco - Back to Iceland - Glacier Kayaking - Back to Australia and New Zealand - Back to California … I want to road trip parts of it - Back to Fall Foliage in Vermont . . I am not sure what deals will come about and what travel dates I can go - excited about so many things and really open to almost any travel… . This weekend brought some additional happiness my way .. grateful . My ankle recovery is going better than expected.. hopefully in a week - I can get back to biking, hiit exercises, and maybe some walk/ runs - might be lofty but maybe we can see… . I need to learn to play pickle ball this year - adding that to my - must do list . Have the best start to the week! . #paris #trending #ohlala #emilyinparis #parisfrance #parisianstyle #pink #pinkvibes

It happened! I was stood up. I could fail to miss this detail in the trials and tribulations of my journey in dating but it’s the truth and it’s authentic. No one wants to be stood up. Swipe, swipe, swipe.. and finally one that resembles a possible swipe right. So here you go. This guy looks vaguely familiar. I do a little homework and realize this guy sat in math class next to me a bazillion years ago in college and is on the dating app....

Let’s go way back to when I was a kid, I was always cute in a Heidi way but not to the standard of cute / mainstream popular ever in school. Let’s start at the beginning - of course, adorable Heidi - top right. The beginning of school where you have big dreams, love school, and had real friends. To the awkward years - …...

Short intermission from my own personal dating experience to bring you an authentic Heidi catching a cheater in action story… This is one of the craziest experiences as the likelihood of being in Vegas at the same time as a relative’s wife on vacay with her boyfriend is highly unlikely. It is also a reminder that if you are not doing what you should… someone is always watching 😉...

It’s weird, I have tried almost everything to find my person. I have joined Match, Bumble, E Harmony, met people at church, paid a professional matchmaker, gone out with friends of friends, met a person on vacation - I mean, what’s a girl got to do to find their person? Yet, like Walt Disney has said We keep moving forward, opening new doors and doing new things because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths…...

Dating in Columbus - So Far In Case You Need to Catch up 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇 1. https://trendywithapassport.com/a-date-in-columbus-a-series-episode-1/ 2. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-2/ 3. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-3/ 4. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-4/ 5. https://trendywithapassport.com/dating-in-columbus-a-series-episode-5-anaphylactic-heidi/

So…. A short recap before we continue. I have a nice date at a swanky restaurant; my date ends up choking… I save his life with the Heimlich Maneuver and on the way home - I am kinda hungry and now starting to feel kinda weird. Okay, a couple things about this date (was not the first one from the person), we were in the same vehicle after the dinner and I started getting marks on my arms and felt kinda sick to my stomach…...

Please Do Not Die Right Now….. There are times in your life when you are dressed for a fantastic night and look amazing. Sometimes I get myself dressed up and look nice… hair extensions or halo and fun clothes… I can always get ready in 15 minutes and look fancy nancy. So, out on the date we go to Easton and go to one of the more swanky restaurants - it’s a lovely evening and lots of people in the restaurant....

Image taken from Google So I deleted the app after Smooth Criminal and decided after a day or so to rejoin. I had deleted the app and all my information so when I logged in using my phone number I had to reinstate my information which showed I was paid for 27 more days. Good! And now I have to figure out what to say .....

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