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| Afro Latinašµš¦ | Girl mom x2 | Wife to my HS sweetheart |
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Iām ok now. Through my motherhood journey Iāve been able to heal my inner child. Iām making sure my daughters wonāt have to. I donāt know about you, but I come from a culture that thinks that these words are assumed and donāt have to be spoken. There are times Iāve felt like I wasnāt enough or wasnāt capable. This is something that I continue to work on as an adult. Hearing certain words consistently spoken from your parents can play a crucial role in shaping your emotional and psychological development. Remember that we are the first voice in their heads. Our words are important. Canāt nobody tell my baby that she isnāt the best Ballerina in the world, because she heard it from me first! #healwithme #motherhoodunfiltered #blackmothers #healinginnerchild
Wait for it š©šā¦.. Thereās never a dull moment with these 2. The way she ran off in those heels took me out yāall š¤£ The hardest part of parenting is not laughing lol.
This year Aziz and I will make 7 years married and 20 years together, and I am still committed to pouring into my relationship with him. I am his biggest encourager, always lifting him up and supporting him. I make an effort to initiate intimacy and create special moments for us. He really loves that lol. And most importantly, I pray for him daily, for his well-being, success, and happiness. Investing in our marriage is a daily choice and I am grateful for the love and growth that comes from doing so.
Get me a Caramel Macchiato and Iāll be your passenger princess all day baby šš
Itās never too late to recommit to YOURSELF! Remember all those goals that you didnāt achieve last year? Donāt give up on them! Last year was an amazing year for me, I checked off a good amount of my 2022 goals. However there are still a few left on the list so instead of moving on to something else. Iām doing something different. Iām regrouping. Hereās what Iām trying. Ask yourself a few questions- 1. Why didnāt I achieve this goal? 2. What can I do differently this time? 3. Whatās the plan? Iām also carving out at least 30 minutes a day to work on these goals. A little progress each day will eventually add up. Donāt beat yourself up for losing focus. Recommit as many times as you need to. #selfimprovement #motivation
It is not lol If you know us then you know weāre ALWAYS together. Truth is we are each otherās safe place, whatās wrong with that? š
AD All stocked up for the BIG GAME! I got my favorite Pepsi Beverages and Frito Lay Snacks from @publix Visit my stories for a link to shop! @pepsi
Goodbye 2022, hello 2023! āØš„š Weāre looking forward to 12 new chapters and 365 chances. Life isnāt promised, donāt waste this your time on people or things that donāt bring you joy or serve you. Wishing you all a blessed and prosperous 2023.
Santa came to town! Merry Christmas from the Wilkinsonās ā¤ļøš
When Christmas is tomorrow! š¬šš½š š¾ These kids are so excited š and so am I! Who else canāt wait for them to open their gifts so they can be occupied?
As we gather with family this holiday season remember that you donāt have to explain your parenting style to anyone. I remember when I was a new mom I would find myself consistently feeling like I had to give lengthy explanations as to why I was doing this or that. I hate that I felt the need to do that because the truth is I donāt owe anyone an explanation. I love my children unconditionally and will always prioritize their needs above all else. That includes setting boundaries and standing firm against any outside opinions that donāt align with what I believe is best for my child.
Are you a last minute shopper like me? [Ad] Iām so happy I chose to go to @beallsoutlet to do my last minute Christmas shopping. Because they offer a wide range of brands and exceptional value, shopping for my entire family was so easy! From deals on the latest fashion trends to home essentials, their selection is constantly changing, thats you'll always find something new to love. So if youāre still not done shopping, head to your local @beallsoutlet and see what they have in store for you!
She tried fish for a second time and complained about the same thing, so we figured she was probably allergic to the fish. I have seasonal allergies and for me an allergic reaction looking like swollen eyes, runny eyes, runny nose, sneezing, and stuffiness. I mean other than the original mad dash to the ER the first go around, we eliminated what we thought was causing the reaction, which was peanut butter and anything peanut related for our oldest daughter and fish for your youngest. My oldest daughter has food allergies and my youngest has a mixture of food and environmental allergies.
A protective hairstyle is a style that tucks the ends of your hair away from being exposed to things that can damage it such as the sun, heat, and constant manipulation. If you hadnāt noticed by now, I prefer things that keep their hair healthy while also being easy to do. Like I mentioned my girl loves a half up half down moment. Your child gets a new look and you donāt have to manipulate their hair too much.
Our list has truly become a guide to help ease my anxiety and help me focus on the things that bring us the most joy during the holidays. Now this can be fun for anyone living anywhere but for children growing up in Florida, where snow days during the holidays just don't happen, this activity is extra special. Businesses- there are lots of different black owned businesses you can support throughout the holidays from gifts for the entire family to holiday home decor. Gingerbread House Competition- building gingerbread homes are fun in itself but turn up the fun by turning it into a fun competition.