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Naturally a parent is going to pay or try their best to get the funds because they want their child(ren) back. n’t walk home alone, have a check-in routine that they call you as soon as they get home, make sure you have a family password in case someone says, Today is all about (insert the password) and I’m here, at the request of (insert password) and your parents to whisk you away to you home at (name of street). It is easy to become complacent with our day to day and think it’s not going to happen to us.
why, I don’t know because that’s all scripted – but that’s another blog post. __, to be my lawfully wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. It doesn’t matter about the not so ideal life events, each of you made a vow to remain married for ‘better or for worse’. There may be a time when only one spouse is working or neither spouse is working – especially in this time of COVID.
Wench weigh anchor warp walk the plank hornswaggle gangplank ahoy bowsprit doubloon dead men tell no tales. If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it. If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it. We have some impulse within us that makes us want to explain ourselves to other human beings.
Boastful spirits are unable to see where change & growth are needed. Boastful spirits are unable to see where change & growth are needed. If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it. If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.
📢Hear ye! 📢Hear ye! 📢Hear ye! I don’t know about you and your family but this is the time of year we eat SONIC twice a week as our family dinner. |ad| Both of our sons participate in track and they both run the 4x4. If you know anything about track, you know that is THE! LAST! event. So, we are usually there until 8:30 or 9:00....PM!! Welp! 🤷🏽♀️ There goes family dinner at the table because now we eat dinner before the track meet or in the truck on the way home. I mean why not?! Family time is family time! Be honest, who would cook dinner? Yeah! ok! I’m side eyeing 👀 you cause the truth ain’t in ya! So, to kick off our regularly scheduled SONIC family dinner season, we decided to say cheers to our last family dinner - at the dinner table...at least until track season is over. Don’t judge us! There is a SONIC down the street from my job so I order ahead on the SONIC mobile app to be first in line, every time. I don’t want to be late and miss Olu’s or Niran’s events. Our usual order... 🌭 Hubs - footlong coney with chili and cheese 🌭 Me - AllAmerican hot dog with all the toppings 🍔 Olu, Niran & Neliah - SONIC cheeseburger plain, no condiments 🥤And we all get some fruity drink or a soda Get ready and gather your friends/family and head to your local drive-in, and order ahead on the SONIC mobile app . #ThisIsHowWeSONIC @sonicdrivein What about you? What do you and your family order at SONIC? . . . . #IC #thisismotherhood #momlifestyle #melaninmama #momcommunity #acupofmotherhood #blackmommagic #blackswhoblog #blackmomsbelike #blackmomsdaily #blackfamiliesmatter #blackparents #brownmamas #blackmomskillingit #blackfamily #blackmomsconnection #stopanddropmom #BlkMamasMatter #brownmama #blackmom #realmotherhood #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodlife #blackbloggersclub #brownsugarsocial #melanindripping #blackfamilies #blackmothers #blackfamilylove
🌿Pull up a chair... let's talk People out here breaking glass ceilings and meanwhile what they won't tell you is THEY are shattered! Humpty Dumpty fell off a wall. sᴛᴏᴘ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ʜᴜᴍᴘᴛʏ ᴅᴜᴍᴘᴛʏ! Instead of falling OFF a wall, jump over it! HOW? You ready for this? It’s simple... ⒸⒽⒶⓃⒼⒺ It doesn't happen overnight. It's a conscious process...a want, a desire. Sometimes, a need! ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ɪs ᴅɪsᴄɪᴘʟɪɴᴇ Do it for YOU. 🗣 Not for the gram. 🗣 Not for your spouse. 🗣 Not for your children. 🗣 Not for your friends. 🗣 Not for your job! Change can AND will distance you from people OR change can bring you closer. Not everyone is accepting of your change...the 'new' you. How has change affected you because of other's decisions, the words of others, the actions of others... So...change is ok! 🦋 It doesn't have to be socially acceptable. Who cares if no one likes the “new” you? 💁🏽♀️ What have you done to change? Did you care about how others felt about your change? . . . . #thisismotherhood #momlifestyle #melaninmama #momcommunity #melanatedconversation #acupofmotherhood #blackmommagic #blackswhoblog #blackmomsbelike #blackmomsdaily #brownmamas #blackmomskillingit #blackmomsconnection #BlkMamasMatter #brownmama #blackmom #realmotherhood #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodlife #stopanddropmom #displayyourcrown #blackbloggersclub #blackgirljoy #blacknbeautiful #brownsugarsocial #melanindripping
🎉 Giveaway 🎉 Decisions! 🗣 Decisions! 🗣 Decisions! I don’t prepare my outfits in advance. I mean, in all honesty, who does? I decide the day of. Heck, sometimes I decide minutes before I leave. Don’t judge me. 💁🏽♀️ But! One item I never have to think about wearing is my Jord watch. |AD| Lately I’ve been more conscious about my accessories and this watch compliments all my outfits. The feminine design of rose gold color and Swarovski crystals give it that romantic elegance. 🚨If you want to be stylishly worry free, follow the link in my bio to enter the contest. 🛍 The winner receives $100 off any watch. 🛍 All entrants will receive a 10% off code. Good luck and tag a friend who would love this giveaway. -------------- Fun Facts about Jord Watches: ✔Most backplates can be engraved! ✔The watches may be sized ✔One year warranty ✔Options for return & exchange ✔Free worldwide standard shipping . . . . . #jordwatches #woodwatch #affordablestyle #bloggersunder5K #lifestyleblogging #microinfluencer #whatimweartingtoday #ootd #melaninblogger #melanin #blackgirlswhoblog #louisianablogger #workingmother #melaninbloggers #melaninatedbloggers
🗣I Quit! 🗣I’m Tired! 🗣I’m Broken! To the mom hiding in her bathroom, needing peace for just one minute so she can cry and release her internal thunderstorm. To the mom who is laughing with her children but is screaming inside! To the mom who is ”broken down and tired of living on a merry go round!" To the mom internally suffocating because she feels “its getting hard to breathe!" To the mom who wants to quit but refuses to… To….Me 🙋🏽♀️ I’m tired of being strong! Just because I’m a woman - a mother - doesn’t mean my resume includes... 🗣Be all things to everyone 🗣Do all things for everyone 🗣Just be strong everyday I get tired! I want to be alone yet surrounded by my family! I want to quit so many days but I can’t! I have too many people depending on my strength and it’s not fair. I shouldn’t feel guilty wanting ME but needing to be THERE...needing to be everywhere. Motherhood is built by design...the design I create. It doesn’t have to be a reflection of the mom next door, the mom who is PTA president, the mom in the stands shouting louder than me, the SAHM, the WAHM, the 9-to-5 mom, the mom with a nanny, or simply THE mom. So moms - so me…🙋🏽♀️ 🗣Rise up… 🗣Lay down… 🗣Go to sleep… 🗣Get some rest… 🗣And do it all, guilt free. #SelfCareIsNotSelfish . . . . . #thisismotherhood #momlifestyle #melaninmama #momcommunity #melanatedconversation #acupofmotherhood #blackmommagic #blackswhoblog #blackmomsbelike #blackmomsdaily #brownmamas #blackmomskillingit #blackmomsconnection #browngirlselfcare #BlkMamasMatter #brownmama #blackmom #realmotherhood #motherhoodjourney #motherhoodlife
This Valentine's Day I am choosing to love myself with @Dove Nourishing Body Care. Because, #selfcareisnotselfish Get yours at @familydollar! #ad . . . . #BeautifullyNourishedSkin #LoveDove #Dove #RealBeauty #FamilyDollar
Game time in the Ogunyemi house can get serious! You never know who will be the “whatever” one, the one “waiting for the next move”, the “critical thinker”, or the one who is giving the side-eye thinking, “I’m watching you”. 🃏 No matter who wins, the anticipation, wondering what the next card will be, and the moment of putting cards down and picking them up can get intense. 🃏 But, just in case it gets physical 😆 Tru-Colour Bandages are on stand-by. 🃏 There is beauty in the diversity of ALL our skin-tones and no matter the shade thrown in our family's card game, the many shades of my family are covered with Tru-Colour Bandages four unique shades which means a color for everyone in my family. 🃏 That’s the beauty of being us - African Americans, Nigerians, and most importantly - the Ogunyemi’s. . . . . . . #sponsored . #trucolourbandages #trucolour #diversityinhealing #trucolourbandages #bandaid #bandages #skintone #skintones #ispyabandage #trucolour #firstaidonthego #skintonebandages #inclusivity #diversity #representationmatters #blackmomsblog #munamommy #parenthoodunlocked #melaninmommyblogger #melaninmommy #melanin #mommyblog #blackmothers #blackgirlswhoblog
I remember it like it was twenty seconds ago. 💫 Tick - Tock! The sound of the second hand was so loud it blurred my vision. The sound of my heart was the only silence in the noise. 💫 My family’s life was unfolding and we were powerless to stop the pain that followed. There was no going back. The rewind button was not an option! March 20, 2017 - Our life was unfolded like a t-shirt I wanted to wear. Unfolded like a love letter waiting to reveal words of affection. Unfolded like vacation clothes taken out of the suitcase to be carefully rehung. 💫 We live our life as if tomorrow is promised. We act like we have time to apologize and say our “I love you’s”. We automatically assume that when we leave our home we will return. Death will happen to each of us, one day. But, death is not permanent! So, whether you know me or not, leave me some words of kindness or feel free to give me my flowers in the comments. 💫 When was the last time you gave out “flowers” 💐- figuratively or literally? . . . . . #blackbloggers #blackblogger #blackbloggersmatter #melanatedminds #melanatedconversation #bllakluv #loveandculture #melanindripping #blacklovepage #aftertheaisle #blackloveexists #blacklovedoc #soulsreconnected #blacklovecouples #blackloveisdope #africanlove #africandress #nigerianclothing
"While you're fighting for a seat at the table, I'll be down in Atlanta (Shreveport for me) building my own. Because what I know for sure is that if I could just build this table, God will prepare it for me in the presence of my enemies." - Tyler Perry ________________ 1️⃣ Don’t let people get comfortable disrespecting you; 2️⃣ Don’t let others tell you to do what they themselves will not; 3️⃣ Don’t let others define you. You must define yourself. 4️⃣ Don’t lose “yourself” trying to be part of their “crowd”; 5️⃣ Don’t entertain gossip. It is spread by cowards and believed by fools; 6️⃣ Don’t deal with people who get mad at you when you call them out for hurting you; 7️⃣ Don’t deal with people, situations or places that rob you of your peace. 8️⃣ Don’t worry about your reputation. Guard your character. You character is who you are. 9️⃣ Don’t hold on to pain, the past, or problems. Let it go. Move forward. 🔟 Don’t let anyone ever tell you what or who you can become. You are the captain of your fate. The master of your soul. (Sophia A. Nelson, Life Tips) . . . . . #melanatedminds #melanatedconversation #blackbloggersclub #melaninblogger #humbledharmony #diningroomsofinstagram #diningroomtables #diningroomdecorations #diningroomdesigns
"Everyone is an athlete. The only difference is that some of us are in training, and some are not." 🏁Form - get in position, get ready, get set...Some of us don't have our form together...we are side-eyeing people, still holding on to dead weight (grudges, jealousy, contempt, etc.), still dragging our feet, flopping our arms and legs, and clenching our hands in frustration. 👀 Focus - stop being so centered on the other person in the other lanes...focus on YOU and stay in your lane! If you keep looking to your left and to your right, you WILL stumble and fall. Who needs that setback? 🙏🏽Faithful - Proverbs 28:20 – “A faithful man will abound with blessings.” Abound is defined as, “To occur or exist in great quantities or numbers; to be rich or well supplied; to be filled.” When we are faithful, we will be rich, well supplied, and filled with God’s blessings in more ways than we can imagine. Plant your feet, spread your arms and hands...take flight sis! This race is YOUR race! Win it - on YOUR terms! . . . . . #displayyourcrown #loveandculture #blackbloggersclub. #bloggerlifestyle #bloggersunder10k #brownsugarsocial #melaninblogger #melaninmommy #mombloggersofig #blackmomsdaily #parenthood_unveiled #melanin #momofanathlete #melanindripping #nike #nikeshoes. #TrackAndField #TrackAndFieldtraining
Moving On 🎬 Turn back for what?! It’s time to keep it moving and write the next chapter of our life - for us and our children! We came into 2019, we saw what we wanted and didn't want to see, we learned how to be better spouses and parents, and we left behind all the pain. Whatever comes our way this year, this decade, and beyond that is NOT in our control, but in God’s control. We are turned around to say... deuces 2019 and hello 2020!! . . . . ♟Isiah 43:18 “Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old.” ♟2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! . . . . . #loveandculture #marriage365 #blacknbeautiful #melanindripping #aftertheaisle #blackandbeautiful #blackmarriage #blackmarriages #blackmarriagesmatter #blackandinlove #blackloveexists #blacklovecouples #blacklovepage #soulsreconnected #blackloveisdope #luvblacklove #fallingblackinlove #blackcouples #louisianablogger #melaninlove #melaninmarriage #melaninmarriages
Your Script 📝 In this new year, new decade, I pray that each of you are comfortable and confident to be YOU. Write your OWN script. One that fits YOUR life! Even if it makes some people uncomfortable, that’s on them, not you. You are you! You can not be who the world wants you to be. You can not be who you think others want you to be. If you do, then you are not being true to YOU. And, your life will be unbalanced since you are trying to be two people. Sis, ain’t nobody got time for that! Let 2020 be YOUR year where you live in harmony, on your YOUR terms, writing your OWN script. The main character and lead actress - YOU. I see you boo. I got that 2020 vision and I’m ready to buy my ticket to YOUR success! Happy New Year! . . . . . #displayyourcrown #blackboss #blackgirlboss #motivationalwords #blackgirljoy #brownsugarsocial #blackgirlsuccess #successfulandblack #blacksuccess #motivationlife #bestmotivation #melaninsuccess #motivation💯