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A Proud dad, his two kids, and the village it takes to raise them. Sharing the goodness, humor, and humanity in all families.
January Photo Dump: a tale of two kids, a dad, and the daddies. Slogging through the month of resolutions and seasonal depression by throwing ourselves down a snow-covered hill, ⛷️ ( the kiddos are much improved this year...we did the "big lift") nurturing plant babies 🪴, having a second party to finish all the charcuterie leftovers from a NYE party, 🧀 taking multiple selfies in the same exact pose, eating and lifting everything I can, 🏋️♂️ having a day with the fishes ,🦈 embracing the frivolity of platinum 💁🏼♀️, and taking pics with the same friends in front of the same club backdrop because dancing to the same 10 pop songs just feels soo good!👯♂️ Hope your 2023 is off to a great start! 🗓️
Serving sugar-plum fairy realness to ring in 2023. 💜💙 Hope you all have a happy and safe NYE! @jcpenney #mensfashion #holidayfashion #gaydad
It's December!! From our home to yours, we hope you have a Holiday Season that is warm and bright. ❄️🎄 @jcpenney #gaydad #lgbtqfamily #happyholidays #merrychristmas
Is this too melodramatic and on the nose? Yes, and you're welcome. With winter comes the chance for more breakouts, so I'm keeping up a habit of using @cleanandclear Deep Action Exfoliating Scrub that gently exfoliates my skin, leaving it feeling soft and smooth. It gets those zit parties off my face so I can look my best for mine. Available at Walgreens - link in bio! #ClearCrew #CleanandClearPartner #gay #gaydad #gaybeard #queer
By the raise of hands, who else can say that @Bowflex commercials were a core memory from their childhood? 🙋🏼♂️👀 I'm thrilled to partner with them to share a lil bit about my fitness journey and routine with the Bowflex community. Seasonal depression usually hits me pretty hard this time of year, so I've got the Max Total 16 in my arsenal to get some extra endorphins. I love being able to get a quick workout in the morning or during a lunch break without ever having to leave my home. An extra perk I love: being able to have beaches and palm trees as my view rather than the snowy mess that's currently outside my window. 🌴 #FitnessThatFeelsDifferent #BowflexPartner #dad #gaydad #gayfit #mensfitness #homegym
Couldn't get enough of Croatia's Waterfalls And Parks. (That's what WAP stands for, right??) Living in Utah I'm a bit spoiled when it comes to National Parks, but I'd put Krka and Plitvice up there among some of the best ones I've visited. My only regret is that we visited right before all the fall colors came in, so I'm sure they're gorgeous right now. Thanks for indulging me as I continue to gush about our trip! #Croatia #visitcroatia #gaytravel #nationalpark #gaytraveler #outdoors #out #lgbtqtravelers
Being a parent while dating and trying to have a social life can be quite the balancing act sometimes. Habits and routines can be tough, but for me it's best to keep it simple. When it comes to my skincare, I use Morning Burst Facial Cleanser from @cleanandclear that leaves my skin feeling clean, energized and ready to face the day. Then at the end of the day when my mug needs a refresh, their Deep Action Exfoliating Scrub does the job amazingly. Whether I'm out being extroverted or embracing my introverted side, my face is ready for all the selfies. Available at Walgreens – link in bio! #ClearCrew #CleanandClearPartner
Who's ready for Halloween!? 🎃 I can't believe it's already this time of year, we'll see what I can manage to throw together for this year. 🤦♂️ If you're like me and still looking for ideas, here's some of our costumes from Halloweens past! And please comment below if you've got a great costume idea for me! #dad #gaydad #halloween #costumes #kidcostumes #starwars
🌈Happy National Coming Out Day. 🏳️🌈 Coming out doesn't have to be about a big grand public declaration (though it certainly can be if that's your thang). It can be a quiet and personal choice to pursue what actually brings you peace. Regardless of how you go about getting there, know that you are deserving of peace. While coming out for me was much more of a several-years process rather than an event, I began being much more intentional about it this time of year 10 years ago. And I'm so grateful I did that. Doing so has brought more peace and meaning to my life than I could have ever foreseen. My life is no fairy tale, but it's soo good and soo worth living. 🌈Cheers Queers! 🏳️🌈 #dad #gay #nationalcomingoutday #pursuepeace #comingout #gaydad #boyfriends #intergaycial #loveislove #lgbtq