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I used to leave my love life up to chance. But, I called it waiting to be chosen because it was what I was taught. You know he that FINDS a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord? I envisioned that one day the perfect man would appear, handpicked by the Father himself and we’d love happily ever after. But as the years passed I found myself more and more disappointed. Like the time I felt him staring at me from across the room as if he were mesmerized by my presence. I wasn’t particularly interested, but he chose me right? He wined and dined me for months only to show his true colors once I started to believe he could fit into my life. I thought I was being patient, but inside I felt lost, hurt and disappointed. But each encounter chipped away at my resolve and left me with feelings of doubt and fear. I realized that waiting to be chosen wasn’t passive. I decided that I wanted to be an active participant in my love life and began to position myself to attract my heart’s desires. I began to understand that I wasn’t defined by the attention of men who didn’t align with the relationship I desired. I see you,lady. A 🧵

Headed to tacos with my favorite college student. This week has been rough. We don’t talk enough about the painful distance between allowing them space to handle life on their own and wanting to step in and make everything right. She’s not a baby, but she’ll always be my baby and anyone who dares to harm just ONE hair on her head has a whole problem on their hands.

This weekend has been exactly what my soul needed. I got to see people who loved on me and were integral to my foundational years. To hear them all say how proud they were really did my heart good. And just to think I haven’t even begun to scratch the surface of the good work I was created to do. Now for a little brunch with two of my favorite girls.

Every time I press record all hell breaks loose downstairs. Sinbad barking. Dishes dropping. The Honey coughing up a lung. If I didn’t know better I’d swear it was intentional. Can you see the disgust on my face? I was saying a prayer.

One of the most commons issues I notice when single, successful women is the inability to communicate with kindness. The tone we use with our subordinates doesn’t necessarily translate well to romantic relationships. And honestly, we should be speaking to our subordinates with kindness and respect as well. But, many arguments could be prevented if the truth were delivered with both kindness and empathy. Elevated Love Commandment #3- Thou shall communicate with kindness.

Are you the CEO of your love life or the janitor? No shade to janitors, but they have no control over their daily activities. They clean up the messes that other people make. Their job happens TO them. Your love life shouldn’t be left up to chance. Elevated Love should unfold FOR you, not TO you. Have you ever felt as if you had no control over your love life? I did. I was attaching the same men with different names. I was cleaning up the mess that someone else had made. Even when it wasn’t working and everything in me said it didn’t need to- I tried anyway. Why? Because I wasn’t making the choice for myself. I spent so much time trying to get him to like me that I didn’t even consider if I even liked him. Are your relationships happening TO you instead of FOR you? Promoting myself to CEO of my love life has meant that I'm in control of my destiny. Just like a successful business leader, I'm setting clear goals, making strategic decisions, and prioritizing what truly matters. No more settling for less than I deserve. I elevated my standards and attracted the love I both desired and deserved and you can, too. #CEOofLoveLife #RelationshipGoals #Attraction #YourElevatedLovedBrand

Ladies, let's talk truth: attracting love and men is not about playing games or molding yourself into someone you're not. It is more than getting dolled up and visiting the hot spots in town. 🥂 Designing your Elevated Love Brand is about embracing your authenticity, confidence, and worth. Truly elevating your love brand will require an inside job. THAT is what will attract the type of love your heart deserves. 🥂It is true that we attract what we believe you deserve, we also attract those who desire the warmth our spirits can provide. 🥂It is imperative that we raise our standards- that means spending less time on what you don’t want(talking and complaining) and more on what you actually want. When you make that shift watch how love follows. My new service offerings are a lot more high touch and I’m getting a lot of insight. The men are finding it hard to navigate dating, too. But, many good men are out there trying. It's time to step into your power and play YOUR position to truly magnetize the love you desire. If you’re looking for someone to come alongside you to make that process easier my DMs are open. #ElevatedLove #YourElevatedLoveBrand #AttractLove

For many years after my divorce, I vowed to never love another the way I loved my ex-husband. Ours was a young love. The kind that you walk into blindly before life has a chance to break your heart. To say I was broken when the marriage didn't last would be an understatement. It was easy to say that I was guarding my heart. Or, that I was being careful. But, the truth is that I was afraid. I was afraid of opening my heart to someone and having them to weaponize my love for them. I was afraid of trusting my choices and dealing with the consequences of those choice. I was afraid. As I scroll social media, I see countless posts of women lamenting over their dating experiences. The underlying tone of those posts are all the same- fear. 🌹Love is a choice. It is a daily decision to invite someone into your heart and trust yourself to make the best choices for your life. 🌹Fear is also a choice. It is a daily decision to harp on your past experiences and use it as an excuse to not position yourself to receive your heart's desire. 🌹Today, I challenge you to choose love over fear, judgment, and negativity, and watch it elevate your relationships and your life. Have you scheduled your Elevated Love Audit & Attraction Strategy session yet? DM AUDIT to get started. #YourElevatedLove #LoveIsMarketing #Elevatedlove #AttractionStrategy

Similar to a brand identity, your elevated love identity is a reflection of your authentic self, values, and aspirations. Embrace who you are, communicate your values, and celebrate the unique qualities that make you, you. Your love identity is your greatest asset in attracting the right partner and building a fulfilling relationship. When do you feel your most authentic self? #LoveIdentity #CelebrateYou