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I'm Antoinette Lavoisier. My platform is all about self love and growing through past trauma to teach others from my personal life experiences how to reach their full potential. I am a plus size model as well that truly enjoy helping other women like myself learn to love their bodies and how to dress up their favorite features and see all the beauty in themselves. I am in love with new adventures and breaking out into the world to try new things . I share my love of hiking and camping when I travel and show other girly girls that they too can find joy in exploring and finding new things about their world to live and love.

Location Austin , TX TX
Country United States of America
Member Since OCTOBER 07, 2020
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The Ariel Trope

I felt insignificant growing up in black culture assuming I would always be held back and down and embarrassed by my creole blood line that was know as dumb voodoo believing hicks that couldn't be trusted. She turns into sea foam when she dies and as her spirit floats in the sky, she eventually earns a soul by carrying out good deeds for a whole 300 years before ascending into heaven. We fantasize that we are going to find the perfect life and happiness outside of ourselves and then we blame the outcome on that man or woman that didn't make us happy , or that new place we moved halfway around the world that turns out not to be the Utopia we imagined. Either because she has lost all hope that her fantasy failed her or because deep down she knows that she set all these events in motion when she sacrificed all she was to try and be something new she assumed would bring her happiness.

The influencer

When I first started this social media thing I was just posting selfies like all the other girls for fun and personal jumps in my self esteem. Staying relevantly marketable means you have to constantly grow your audience and stay current to be considered valuable by brands or social media careers. I receive loads of messages everyday from people that can start off nice with compliments and support but the moment they aren't getting the attention they want from you or you tell them they have gone too far and have to set boundaries they become abusive and threatening and will troll you and try to hurt your career. Start an online business, write a book or use all those social media marketing management skills you have learned and run someone else's social media business.

I've finally reached the end of my November series. I'll be back soon ! I hope you all had a very lovely weekend Happy Holidays everyone #plussizetravel #softblackgirl #blackgirlrocks #mynaturalhair #blackvintage #thickandlovely #blackpinup #blerdgirl #curvyblackwomen #plussizeandpretty #curvyfashionistas #30plusstyle #plussizetrends #plussizefallfashion #plussizeblackwomen #prettyblackgirls #blackwomenaremagic #midsizegirl #midsizeootd #midsizemodel #plussizefashions #plussizefashionforwomen #thickwoman #cuteblackgirl

Apologize to yourself for all the apologies you waited for

I pushed my feelings away and waited to feel differently than I did because I believed I was just gonna mature and arive to a place where it would magically change because I was older. I know better to wait for anyone to resolve or validate the way I feel and expecting it give someone else too much control of my life. You can't be too close because hurt people don't know how not to hurt people, expecially people they actually love. Your life is yours and that's why it's so important to learn to love yourself because in the end it's up to you to to set yourself free from dead end cycle of waiting for someone else to see you as valuable.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger

It's not comforting in anyway to know that it can be worst; then guilt sets in when you witness the tired and sunken eyes of those that are struggling to keep from being homeless and feed their families. On my ungratefully impatient days I am frustrated with this small house, mad about the heat that has always been in Texas and annoyed by my own children arguing. This small house has allowed me to get my family financial stability and improved my credit for a brighter future to give my children what I have never had. I only crave what I can bring in close enough to truly feel and trust because I need all of my energy to propel myself farward to my dreams that I once was too afraid to even reach for.

Happy Weekend everyone! It will not always be like this, The air windless, a few last Leaves adding their decoration To the trees’ shoulders, braiding the cuffs Of the boughs with gold; a bird preening In the lawn’s mirror. Having looked up From the day’s chores, pause a minute, Let the mind take its photograph Of the bright scene, something to wear Against the heart in the long cold. by Ronald Stuart Thomas #midsize #midsizegals #midsizestyle #midsizefashion #midsizegals #midsizebabes #plussizecottagecore #cottagecorefashion #bigbeautifulwoman #plussizequeen #bodypositivewomen #bodypositivebabe #bodypositivemodel #bodypositiveblogger #blackwomenwithstyle #mynaturalsistas #naturalhairmodel #plussizefashionforwomen #thickwoman #plussizefashionistas #blackgirljoy #cutefacechubbywaist #bodypositivepower #hatlovers

The first 5 years was challenging getting to REALLY knowing each other because we jumped right in and had a baby in our first year. Then we lost a baby in our second😔 The 7th and 8th was the hardest and was almost the end after I lost my Dad... but by then we had grown so accustomed to each other and been through so much together that there is just no one that understands either of us the way we understand each other. When I was young I thought marriage had to be a certain way and that we both had to play a part in some husband and wife roles I had seen on tv.. I've learned that all I have to be is my authentic self and love him for being his authentic self. We don't become a role we decide who we want to be together and what we want for our life's together in our marriage and make it happen. The truth is you are going to change and they are going to change alot through what you go through! Sometimes people fall apart but if you don't and just hold on you will make a breakthrough. Sometimes you will feel like you can take over the world together and other times you will feel so far apart sleeping right next to each other you don't think it will ever feel the same again. Then a fire starts that you didn't know you had a spark for and you love them a little bit more than you knew was possible as long as you keep choosing them today and planning to choose them tomorrow too.... 12 years and counting ❤ #interacialcouple #interracialfamily #interracialromance #interracialrelationships #interraciallovers #interracialgoals #teaminterracial #mixedfamilies #swirlcouple #swirler #lovehasnocolor #mixedcouples #whitemanblackwoman #swirllove #teamswirl #marriedlife💍 #interracialmatch #wmbw #12yearsandcounting #ilovemyhusband❤️ #scorpiocouple #scorpioseason♏️

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